Sunday, March 30, 2008

mama monday III: Let's Do Disney

Mama Monday Disclaimer: I am nowhere near an expert mom. I am on a mama journey just like all of you are. However, I'm more than willing to share my experience with you guys. If today's topic is something that you have an experience with then I hope you'll share too...either on your own blog (be sure to leave us a link) or in the comments section.
I realize this is a pretty narrow topic that won't be helpful to everyone but there seemed to be enough questions about our trip to warrant a post. I know there are lots of you who have already done Disney vacations too so there are lots of "experts" out there. I'm going to just do this in list form and stick things in as I think of them...in other words, there will be no rhyme or reason to this post.

Here we go.

1. Disney DOES allow you to bring in your own food. We loaded ourselves down with food for all three days and ended up only buying cotton candy, a mickey rice krispie treat and two cokes during all of our time there. I am just too cheap to pay those prices! :) I know that they do have some sort of meal plan though so if you are traveling with a larger family or just don't want to worry about packing your own food definitely look into that.

2. Hearty snacks. I made sure to pack things for us that were going to hold us over for quite a while - in other words no 100 calorie packs for this trip! We packed a ton of granola bars (I love the kashi kind...they stick to your ribs), apples, oranges, nutrigrain bars, pretzels, etc. Typically I steer clear of prepacked, individual-serving foods but found them to be useful for this trip. Jif peanut butter makes individual 1/2 cup sized portions that are perfect for dipping pretzels or apple slices. They pack something like 380 calories so they're sure to fill you up. Also, I picked up a couple of tuna lunch packs for Brent and me. They come with the tuna, mayonnaise, relish and crackers (and even a mint to get rid of your stanky fish breath!) and don't need to be refrigerated.

3. Lots of water! For the three of us - plus enough for E's bottles we took about 6 bottles in per day. We stored them in the bottom of the stroller so we didn't have to lug them around in bags. If you wanted to bring your own reusable bottles though there are water fountains throughout all parks.

4. Early mornings. The earlier you get there, the lighter the crowds. We were there during spring break which is possibly one of their busiest times of the year. The parks open at 8:00 for most of the year. We got there around 9:00 and people were pouring in but the lines were still much shorter. By 11:00 things were really crowded.

5. Figure out the fast-pass system right away. All of the super popular rides and attractions have a "fast pass" option available at their entrance. This will spit out a ticket with a time slot telling you when to return. Then you can trot right to the front of the line and wait about 5-10 minutes versus upwards of 45 or even 90. Plan ahead the night before so you know what you want to do/see and then collect your fast-passes first thing so you have your day all planned out.

6. All of the biggest characters (Mickey, Minnie, Princesses, etc.) are positioned at designated stations now rather than wondering all over the park. The later in the day it is, the longer the lines so get there early if you want to see the characters. Sarah, of course, wanted to see Cinderella so we headed there first thing on our last day...the wait was 30 minutes but was still shorter than the 75 minutes we'd seen on our first day there.

7. Also, lots of kids in the park buy autograph books for the characters to sign with a slot for their photographs. If you want to save a little money it would be a fun project to help your kiddo make one before you go. Maybe buy some Disney stickers and pretty-up a regular 4x6 brag book. Our kids were too little to get into that but I'm sure when they're older we'll do something along those lines. There are Disney photographers stationed with all the characters and they'll take photos of your kids and then give you a link to check them out online. You're still allowed to take your own pictures though and you really should...I was less than impressed with the shots Disney did (and not just because I'm a photographer!)

8. You can bring your own stroller but you can also rent them. I don't know how much the stroller rental is but it really wasn't a hassle at all to bring our own. The only slight annoyance was having to break it down to get on the tram from the parking lot but that's just once a day. Also, if you have any sort of baby/toddler carrier, bring it. I love my Over the Shoulder Baby Holder. (recommended by J.J.)

9. Go at your kiddo's pace. We found that our days were much more enjoyable when we just let Sarah take the lead and do what she wanted. Granted she's little and was a bit overwhelmed but I'm sure the same is true of older kids too. There's definitely an adult desire to "get your money's worth" but I think that's what leads to Happiest Place on Earth meltdowns. On our last day there Sarah played in one of the little kid playgrounds for almost two hours. We kept trying to get here to go see Ariel or ride another ride and she wanted nothing to do with it. In the end, I'm glad we didn't push her. It pained me just a bit because I kept thinking "this playground cost me $500.00!!!) but she left happy and, therefore, so did we.

10. The above-mentioned playgrounds are really great. There are at least a couple in every park and are geared for kids ages 2-6 or something like that. Many of them have water features so bring a change of clothes for your little ones or even a swimsuit. They were never really that crowded and we found that they were great places to have lunch.

11. Ooh. This is a biggie. 2008 is the Year of a Million Dreams at Disneyworld. I'm not sure what all this entails but I do know that the gist of it is that they're giving away one million special things - big and small. For example, Sarah and I were waiting in line to ride something and the lady behind me politely asked the man running the ride how long the wait was. He said, "come right this way" and whisked her off to the front of the line and made her and her son the family of the hour for that ride or something like that. He got a hat, they made an announcement welcoming them to the ride and then they got to ride it as many times as they wanted. At one of the playgrounds I noticed a family who were all wearing "dream fastpasses" or something like that around their necks. I asked about them and they said that one of the workers handed them to them as they got off a ride...they were good for getting on any ride at any time all day long. So here's the thing: talk to the workers, often and politely. :) The workers are the ones who give away the "dreams" (big and small, remember) so the more you interact with them the greater your chances are of getting something neat. I even heard that each day they're choosing a family to stay in CINDERELLA'S CASTLE FOR THE NIGHT. How cool is that? I kept thinking that if I were Mr. or Mrs. Disney I would have the guy shining the water fountains or cleaning the bathrooms giving that away...you just never know! So get chatty!

12. At Magic Kingdom you have to ride either the monorail or the ferryboat to get into the park. They'll tell you that they both take the same amount of time but if you're traveling with strollered little ones definitely go for the ferry boat...it's just easier.

13. A couple of "stay-together" tips. First, we saw lots of families wearing shirts in the same bright color - totally made it easier to spot them. Second, when you get there pick an obscure, off-the-beaten-path place to meet in case your group gets split up. We chose Cinderella's fountain which is right behind her castle. It's so loud in the park that it would be difficult to hear your cellphone if you tried to call the other adult in your group. Of course, if a little one gets lost guest services has a place for lost children (wonder if Peter Pan hangs out there?) but it's a good idea for you and your spouse or whoever to come up with a meeting place. In a crowd that big you can step just a few feet away from each other and get totally lost in the sea of faces.

Okay, that's all I can think of for now but I may be back later to add more. Anyone else willing to share?

Buddy Posts:

Amy

And a few of the fam on our last day, just for fun...


mama monday alert

Tomorrow's Monday! Who knew I would ever be this excited about waking up on a Monday?
I noticed in the comments and emails over the last several days that lots of people either have Disney trips coming up or have been to Disney recently so I thought it would be helpful to do a MM post on tips and tricks for navigating the happiest place on earth with kiddos.
So here's the call for entries with a one-night heads-up! If you do a blog post make sure to let me know so I can link it here...if not, feel free to leave a all your good info in the comments section!
Until then let's all say it together...
"Awwwwwwwww"


Saturday, March 29, 2008

obnoxious emailer gives birth

Got this in my inbox from Samantha last week after she's already sent me one big ol' package containing a shoe, a grey card, a wipes container, and a blue fleece baby jacket:

"Hey, loser, I found your other shoe. I'm going to start charging you for shipping. I'll try to get it to you soon . . . But I'm a little busy this weekend. :)"
I know you're wondering what could be more important than mailing me my cute shoe.

Well...how bout this...

William Steven Clark
born at 11:44 pm
March 28, 2008
9 pounds, 1 ounce (at only 37 weeks!!!)


Man I love that littlest Clarkie already...even if he does stand between me and my cute slip-on, sporty, strappy shoe.

(if you don't want to miss Disney, Day Three scroll down to last night's post)

Friday, March 28, 2008

Day 3: Princess Day!

We headed back to the Magic Kingdom on our last Disney day to make sure we hit all the things on our list - most importantly, CINDERELLA! Unfortunately she was asleep in her castle on the first night we were there (read: the line was over an hour long and mommy and daddy just couldn't stomach the wait) so we made sure to bee-line to the princesses first thing on the morning of day 3.

We'd had success with Mickey the day before when Sarah bravely walked right up to him and planted a kiss on his nose. That gave me the teensiest bit of hope that Pi'bears might actually speak a word or two to Cinderella. She had all sorts of lines planned out including "I love you" and "you're so pretty". When we first entered the room where the princesses were greeting the children Sarah just stared at her in awe. Then a little smile. And then slowly, slowly she retreated into her little two-year old shell until, predictably, there was nothing left but this...









Hey, can you blame her? I mean, Cinderella is her HERO. Her first little girl obsession. I'm quite sure I'd react the same way if I were to meet Oprah...or Tara Whitney! She was thrilled with the experience though (once we got out of there and were a safe distance away!) and hasn't stopped talking about it since. She's always sure to add though that "I was a lil' bit shy". A lil' bit. Right. In our house we call that a lotta bit.

Belle and Sleeping Beauty were there too but they're pretty much second rate in Sarah's book, at least this year.









We ended the day with a stop at the confectionary where we let Sarah choose whatever her heart desired. She had it in her head that she really wanted cotton candy...



but after three bites declared it "too sticky to eat" and moved on to mommy's yummy treat...

Oh well, I didn't need those calories anyway!
And for the record, Buddy-Ro was there too. Doing what he does best.



Tomorrow no more disney, I promise!

Thursday, March 27, 2008

day two of the magic

Animal Kingdom day today. My favorite of all the parks. As a non animal lover I'm not sure why I dig Animal Kingdom so much but I do. The Shertzers were living on Shertzer time which put them at the park an hour or so after we arrived so the four Cobbs kicked the day off with a viewing of It's Tough To Be A Bug...a fun little 3-d movie. Well, fun if you're Brent or me. Unbelievably terrifying if your Pi'bears. A yawner if you're Ephraim.

After that we met up with the Shertzers and headed to the safari ride. It's quite jostling which put Hayden and Ephraim right to sleep. Sarah was all ears when the driver shouted to "hold on tight" and she grabbed the most secure thing she could find...

there was a lot of this going on...
I have to say that Amy's getting pretty rockin' with the camera herself. She's a fast learner. And a fast runner. More on that another day.
oh, wildlife photographer I am not...
had a little lunch on the go...
Did a little drumming...
a little growling...
Caught up with ol' Mickey Mouse...
And tried our best to enjoy and document every moment...
Wah-LA! Day Two!

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

disney day one

Ah, the recap. Here we go.

Arrived in Orlando in the middle of the night on Thursday. Actually Friday. About an hour away from our final destination we had to stop for gas which woke both pajama-ed babies up. Ephraim started fussing on and off and Sarah spent the next hour rousing from sleep every 5 minutes to calm him down. She was on a continuous half-asleep dialogue loop that went something like this: "it's okay buddy. it's okay. it's okay buddy. it's okay. it's okay. it's okay to go to disneyworld. it's okay. it's okay buddy." Man they were both such troopers.

We stayed with Amy's parents who are amazing. I'll never again wonder where Amy got her insanely hospitable spirit. And as I uploaded all four memory cards last night I realized I don't have a single picture of either of them. What was I thinking? Sometimes I really bug myself.

Anyway, we got up early Friday morning and spent the day lazing around. After Sarah's nap (her one and only nap in an actual bed for the entirety of our six day vacation) we loaded up and headed to the Magic Kingdom, just the four of us. Here you go...





Buddy-Ro doing what he does best - being chill...

the monorail. and the first glimpse of Cinderella's castle...

the harried mama rifling through bags of stuff and food and diapers and cameras...

the fun daddy...

the crazy, silly Pi'bears...



but, of course, the day ended as all toddler days at Disney surely do...



with a fussy, tired kiddo...




Ah, the happiest place on earth.

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

hey mickey you're so fine!



We're back. We're exhausted. We're in love with our home. And our beds. And the memories of our oh-so awesome time. More tomorrow!

:)

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

the palace or bust



Oops. Sorry. Maybe I should have warned you about the graphic foot content. I realize some of you who come here expecting only sweet cuddly baby rolls may be creeped out a bit. Forgive me.

We're off to Disneyworld tomorrow and to commemorate that exciting event Pi'bears decorated most of the house with these itty bitty metallic Mickey stickers courtesy of Miss Mandy. I was lucky enough to get decorated as well. I was just thinking yesterday that I needed a pedicure but I feel so fancy now that maybe I'll just forego it and keep sticking Mickey on my toes.

At any rate, I won't be around for a few days to answer emails and such so don't go thinking I'm dead. It's okay to miss me though. :) I'll have plenty to post when we get back and since we're meeting up with the Shertzer's down there you may even see some guest stars! Mama Monday will be on hold until the 1st.

Have a fabulous weekend!

(oh, one more thing...see those jeans? They're REGULAR jeans. As in sort-of-skinny-girl jeans. Perhaps I'm squeezing into them a bit prematurally but I don't even care. Tomorrow baby boy turns 4 months old so I'm celebrating by breaking out some pre-preggo clothes! Woohoo! Celebrate with me and squeeze on some of your own circulation stopping britches.)

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

anything you want

you got it.




That song kept looping through my head as I worked on this picture of Buddy-Ro. Have I mentioned before that I'm just the slightest bit obsessed with him?

While in Boston last week Samantha kept drilling me with questions like "do you honestly love him as much as you love Sarah?" and "who would you save in a fire if you could only save one of them?" All I could do was smile and nod and swear to her with every ounce of my being that the love you have for your second is just as intense and mind-boggling as what you feel for your first. She'll find out for herself in a matter of days when her own sweet obsession arrives. And J.J. will know even sooner than that. The intensity of my need to bury my face into his sweet chubby neck folds is as strong as it was and is for Sarah every day of her life. It's as simple as that.

Anything you want, Ephraim McCray. You got it.

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Mama Monday II: Reading with Babies and Toddlers

Mama Monday Disclaimer: I am nowhere near an expert mom. I am on a mama journey just like all of you are. However, I'm more than willing to share my experience with you guys. If today's topic is something that you have an experience with then I hope you'll share too...either on your own blog (be sure to leave us a link) or in the comments section.

Not exactly sure how to start this post so I guess I'll just jump right in. Over the last two years I've gotten many emails from people asking how we got Sarah to love reading so much. I'm not really sure that it was anything we did exactly but there's no denying that the girl loves her some books. And has since she was about 4 months old. I started "reading" little board books to her pretty much the day we brought her home from the hospital but she was around 4 months when we started incorporating stories into her bedtime routine by reading three books together before her last bottle. In the beginning there were definitely many, many nights that she was crying and squirmy by the end of those three short books and we were speed reading to get through them! We never really broke from routine though and she quickly realized that this was something we would be doing every night. By 6 months she was definitely responding to books with excitement and expectation. I'll never forget when she was about 5 1/2 months and we were reading Five Little Ducks (see below) and she started flapping her arms and panting like a crazy woman when "all of the five little ducks came back!" It was obvious to me in that moment that on some very basic level she understood what was going on in the stories, even if that understanding came solely from the inflection of my voice as I read.

Books have always been available in her room on her level. She's never needed either of us to get books for her. I felt strongly about this in my classroom and I feel the same way as a mom. Kids need to know where to get books, how to choose books that they like and be able to do those two things by themselves. I also think it's important to rotate new books in every now and then. And by all means, use the library! Even though we have an obscene collection of children's books we still visit the library every other week or so. Sarah usually picks out a couple of books that she really wants and then I pick a few for her that I know she'll enjoy.

So, here are a few that have been hits at our house over the last two years. I can't wait to read some of your suggestions too! Make sure to post in the comments section if you do a buddy post and I'll link it here at the end.

Babies: (0-18 months)
* Fuzzy Bee et al. (these were our very first favorite books...they're cloth books with lots of texture on every page for baby to feel and play with)
* Five Little Ducks (A Raffi jingle...definitely worth picking up the CD and learning the tune)
* Baby Beluga (again, learn the tune...it's so much more fun that way!)
* Goodnight Gorilla (an almost wordless book with an awesome story. We've probably read this book 100+ times and I still find something new in the pictures everytime)
* First 100 Words (We really like this one but there are lots of other vocabulary books like this that your baby will love to "read" to you)
* Big Red Barn (a fun rhyming read from the author of Goodnight Moon and the illustrator of If You Give a Mouse a Cookie)
* Skidamarink! I Love You (Coincidentally the photographer's name is Michael Scott which is hilariously funny if you're a fan of The Office. And if you're not a fan, you should be.)
* Blue Hat, Green Hat (and absolutely anything else by Sandra Boynton)
* Look Who's Talking on the Farm (this is a fun book that becomes unbelievably funny once you realize that you're supposed to put your lips in the little cut-out holes on each page. It took us a while to make that connection but once we did it was giggles and laughs every night.)
* Spot Books (also great for toddlers and even beginning readers)
* Anything by Karen Katz (Many of her books are lift-the-flaps which is forever fun for older babies)
* I Went Walking (I prefer the lap-sized board book because the pictures are just really, really pretty)

Toddlers:
* Old Black Fly (make sure you read this one with lots and lots of attitude and it will be a hit!)
* Rumble in the Jungle

* It Looked Like Spilt Milk (a simple book with lots of pattern and repitition that will surely be one of your child's first independent reads)
* Jake Baked the Cake
* On Market Street (an alphabet book that was an instant favorite at our house)
* If You Give a Mouse a Cookie (and all the others too)
* Happy Birthday Moon (and all the other bear books by Frank Asch too)
* Get Out of Bed! (Robert Munsch who is best known for the sentimental classic Love You Forever is actually a master at silly stories for toddlers and kids. Another favorite of mine, Thomas' Snowsuit)
* 10 Dogs in the Window (don't skip this one...it is a serious favorite!)
* Chicka Chicka Boom Boom (of course)
* Sunshine on My Shoulders (this book comes with a CD of John Denver singing. We have lots of other CD song books that Sarah adores like this one and this one and this one)
* Clap Your Hands
* Big Sarah's Little Boots (no surprises why this is a hit around here right?)

Okay, there's a good list that I hope some of you find helpful! I'll add to it as I think of more of our favorites. I can't wait to hear what yours are! And when you shop for books don't forget yard sales and thrift stores...they are treasure troves for children's books...especially popular favorites. Other than that I usually buy books from Marshall's or TJMaxx or Amazon. Have fun!

Other Book-Lovin' Mama Monday Bloggers:

Heather

Kelley

Lyndsay

Heather (mom to the SarahBear)

Megan

Christie

Angela

Reminder: mama monday tomorrow!

Just wanted to give everyone a heads-up that tomorrow's Mama Monday will be about reading with children and book recommedations. If anyone wants to do a buddy post please do and let me know so I can link to you!

In the meantime, here's my only piece of proof that Ephraim and I actually were in Boston last week...

Ignore the shleppiness of my appearance. Occasionally I clean up well. Today wasn't one of those days. And, for the record, Ephraim enjoys the carrier much more than this picture might suggest! :)

Friday, March 14, 2008

the girly-friends in black and white

If you were hoping for Boston pictures featuring, well, Boston then I'm sorry that you'll be disappointed. With four little ones we spent our days hanging out in pj's, eating chocolate covered edamame, talking, laughing, crying and feeding kiddos. I don't think I'd have it any other way!
A couple series of the girls...








And if you're feeling a bit nostalgic (like me!) check them out here and here.